I saw Ernie Valutis years ago for counseling. He was the 5th I had seen in my life, and far and away the best. Most perceptive man I've ever met, gentle and caring yet tough enough to get you through the hard stuff. Ernie won't let you waste time just talking, you'll work, and get insight into yourself and your actions, etc., that will put you on a healing track. It's been many years and I still think of him often and am grateful for his help.